Tuesday, June 16, 2009

The Miracle of Life

On June 9th, of this year I was honored, proud, and thrilled to be at the hospital, when my daughter-in-law and my son become new parents of a healthy baby boy. In the waiting room along with the mom’s family, was my wife, my 83-year-old mother-in-law and my three-year-old grandson. Four glorious generations, in a waiting room, just waiting for the surprise announcement of whether their was a new Hebranko boy or girl. Then my son came through the elevator doors and the wait was over. My grandson had his little brother, that he was so anxiously waiting for, a new play pal.

Right after the initial emotional outburst from all and my own personal pride, I was feeling for my son and his now family of four. I could not help to think about how beautiful life is truly. A miracle had just happened within that building and my son and daughter-in-law (especially) were part of it. Within minutes, we were able to look through this glass window and I saw him. My grandson, my second grandson. I never had a two. I was an only child, I had an only child and for the past three plus years, I was blessed with one grandchild. Now I had two.

I have lived to see this happen. I could not help think, as I looked at this beautiful little boy how great it was this time, to be a part of this moment. Sadly, at the birth of his brother, I could not be at the hospital. Therefore, I waited at home for a phone call from his dad. That when it did come through, he said to me, “Da, I have a son”!

I also could not help remember how many of my son’s school plays I missed, his little league games that I could not attend. I even missed my own son’s high school graduation.

However, I did not miss this. I was there, live and part of it all. The last brand new baby I had seen born was this little person’s daddy 32 years ago. It was a big difference. Besides me being 32 years younger, his daddy was almost twice his size. My little grandson was a small guy, six pounds eleven ounces. His dad was eleven pounds four ounces. Almost half but just as beautiful and just as cute.

Life is a miracle. At one point I was holding my older grandson (imagine, my older grandson) and the both of us are looking at this newcomer to the world.

I want to wish my grandsons, their mom and dad only happiness and health in life. I hope they always see the glass as half full and look for that silver lining in those clouds….it is there.

Life is a miracle and if you are reading this blog, then you are part of this miracle. Each day we open our eyes and at the end of the day, lay our heads on our pillows, we were part of the “Miracle of Life”.

There were times in my life I did not see grandchild in my future and now I see me dancing at their grandchildren’s wedding.

All things are possible ……

Have a great day and keep smiling
Love,

Mike

29 comments:

Anonymous said...

After seeing the lil ones pictures you have been so blessed and after seeing a picture of you with both of your grandsons i saw a look in your eyes one of such pride and happiness... it was amazing...Geezz i remember the first time meeting your son he was only 11 or 12 .. now look at him .. he is married to a girl i met when she was about 16... and they have grown up to be wonderful parents and most of all wonderful people ...
I wish you and your family the best in everything and know that you are truly blessed because you were here to see this miracle ...

Love to all
Carol

Anonymous said...

Hi Mike
Thanks for such an uplifting message and good luck to you and your family.
Sonia

Anonymous said...

Michael
You have a way of helping realize the gifts I have in my life and make me want to go on and fight for another day
Julia Harris

Anonymous said...

I read your blog and I understand what you are saying but I can not see my life as a miracle. It is a biological mistake that happened between my parent. I appreciate you trying to boost my hope but I am not sure if it is working.
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Anonymous said...

Michael
When will you be making speaking engagements? I would love to come see you in person.
Do you have a book?
Frank Robertson

Anonymous said...

Congratulations to you, Mike and to your whole family. Your joy just jumps off the screen as I read your post! I am so glad for you and so thankful for your life and that you are HERE to experience this wonderful event.

God Bless You!
Carole P.

Anonymous said...

To anyone who comes to this site, I have been coming since September of 2008 and I hhave gotten so much. I want to let all know that you have helped me lose 54 pounds. I love the K I S T method. Mike give us more about it.
My name is Randy and I live in Canada and I thank you all.

Anonymous said...

Dear Mike
Happy Father's day to you and all. I enjoy reading your stuff and you have helped through some rough times. I come here everyday hoping to see new posting either by you or others. I am an overeater and there are times as I am eating I know I am doing the wrong thing but for that moment it makes things numb. Am I alone with this.
Well thank you once again
Hillary T

Anonymous said...

Hi Michael
The Miracle of Life makes your last two blogs very spiritual and I love it but tell us more about you personally, please.
Charles Grey

Anonymous said...

I enjoy these blogs and have found them to be helpful. I want to thank Michael for his time and those who contribute. This is a horrible disease we live with and any support we can get, is a good thing.
Eve

Anonymous said...

Dear Mike
You ask f my life is a Miracle in your poll. I could not really say yes. At times I feel it was an error on Gods part. I am miserable.
Do you understand
Annmarie D.

Anonymous said...

Michael
How old are you? Do you get to go over Richard Simmons house? Does he have a girfriend? Is he a really a nice guy? What did you eat for lunch today?
Vera N

Kathy said...

Happy Belated Father's Day Mike to you and your son. I know it was a special one at your house. It hurts my heart to see some of the bloggers here who feel that their life is anything other than a miracle. But I understand what despair feels like and what it can do to us. I wish I had the words to convince us all that we are as it is said, fearfully and wonderfully made. The best I can do is to tell anyone reading this who feels that they have no hope that I have felt the same but I continue to believe my best days are ahead of me and I wish relief from the pain for anyone who is suffering.

Anonymous said...

Dear Mike and His Bloggers
Thank you for what you have to say. Sometimes it is hard for me to accept what you have to say although I wish I could. I want to thank Kathy becasue I understand her so well. I inspire to feel as Mike does and see the world like he does.
Thank you all
Rita Peters Ga

Mike Hebranko said...
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Mike Hebranko said...

Loss is not an easy thing!
Especially for those who are left behind.
We mourn for those who are gone and we pain for the emptiness and the space that is left in our own lives.
How we handle this pain, how we fill this emptiness is so important to our well being. Nothing can bring back those who are gone.
No tears, no drugs, no drink, no food.
Memories are the best things to help those who have left us to live on forever.
Farewell to those gone and a peaceful journey to them.
To us who are left behind, we have the gift of life today. We must make the best of it!

Peace and love

Mike Hebranko

Anonymous said...

Mike
That was beautiful. You have such a way with words and a true feeling for life. I have felt so bad this past week. I loved Michael and Farrah and now both are gone. I have been using it as an excuse to eat until I came to this safe blog. I am now going to put a stop to it and just mourn their loss.
Hilda

Anonymous said...

My life is a miracle and so is lives like yours who share with us and help so many of us.
Paul Toms

Anonymous said...

Dear Michael
I noticed the poll on your blog. The question for this round is about ones life being a miracle and I see that some actually have picked "NO". I am sad for them. My life is far from a bowl of cherries but a miracle? It sure is. Then I meet people like you and some of the blog friends you have and I know that life in general is a Miracle. Life is no accident.
Thanks for giving me this forum and for those who picked "NO" cheer up and take a look again.
Gilda Fran Thomas

Anonymous said...

You are an inspiration to me. Thank you so very much!
Tonya

Anonymous said...

Hey Mike
Great post and you need to know that you touch others lives, like mine. You have made me want to go on and look forward. Sometimes it is not easy but I keep thinking of you and things you say.
Great job man
Joe G from Co.

Anonymous said...

Dear Michael
Happy 4th of July I hope yours is a good one. You have helped to make mine a much better one. I have now lost 39 pounds since March 12th with your help and inspiration.
Betty

Anonymous said...

Michael
those Bar b Ques oh they are killers. Any good tips?
John F Gold

Anonymous said...

Mike
This is my first visit to your blog page but can be rest assured it will not be my last. I have read a few of your postings and your are unbelievable. I also get a lot from some of the visitors postings. I will be back. I will highlly share this site with others.
Laurie T.

Anonymous said...

Life is a miracle and thank ou for reminding us of that.
Shirley Wilson Ct

Anonymous said...

Michael
Coming to your website is an inspiration to me. I enjoy coming hee and finding what you have to share. I love our polls and thoughts for the day. I am an overeater and I find the days I have the hardest times this page helps me stay focused
Robin H

Anonymous said...

Mike I come to the blog almost every day can you post more often than monthly?
Please it helps so much.
Jennifer W

Anonymous said...

Michael
No matter how often you post I find it very inspirational. I have to tell you that you have been a major part in me changing my life for the better.
Seriously
Thanks
Rita Glen

Anonymous said...

Dear Mike
I have not written now for three months. When I came to your blog I was really down and feeling badly. I began reading your writings and you inspired me to do something about my life. I would like to thank you not only have I lost to date 27 pounds and am exercising. I am happy with myself and I accept what I am and who I am. That is the hardest thing for me to do.
Betty Lou M.